When I was studying Tarot, I fell in love with the Hermit. The Hermit on top
of the mountain shines the lantern’s light so people following the path can see
their way up. I internalized that image knowing that I am partially through this
journey, walking upon my path. As a result, I can turn around and shine my light
down for other people who have just begun. I can hold the light for others who
are not as far along.
As a coach, just because I put myself in the position of mentoring, helping
other people, doesn’t mean I know it all. In fact, I sometimes have learned more
from coaching sessions than what my clients do. I am constantly getting
revelations. Clients come to coaches with problems that they need solved; but in
reality, it is also ‘stuff’ we need solved.
Importantly, remember to embrace this mindset: we can share what we already
know. We are not teaching people who are in the same experience as we are. We
need to help people that are coming up. Give them a hand. We are qualified to do
that. As long as we stay open to continue to learn and learn from others, learn
from the Universe and maintain growth, then we can continue to help them
progress as we progress.
A lot of people compare themselves to others and they get stuck. First, look
at how successful you already are. In a presentation, I heard that the odds for
us in our DNA composition, our unique package are 1 in 44 trillion that sperm
and that egg got together, and created us in exactly the same form. If we look
at our life experiences, just in general, and if we look at our unique
experiences, that’s like 1 in 100 trillion – there is nobody else that is put
together the same way. So, look at yourself as a unique individual with unique
experiences and perspectives, and how you can share that.
Also,
somewhere, there are crowds of people waiting to hear your specific story based
on your experiences. Even though we are unique in the experiences, everybody can
probably draw a parallel to our experiences.
People need to hear it in our voice. We are doing a disservice to humanity by
not speaking our truth, by not owning those gifts. There are a lot of people who
are seeking. All of us who are healers, we are seeking. Just imagine if the
voice that led you to the decisions, to education, to new growth; what would
happen if you decided not to be able to speak?
You have a responsibility to share your story and ‘pay it forward’. Take your
experiences and look at them, somebody gave it to you, now look to give it to
somebody else. The bottom line is those people that are seeking will always be
seeking until they find something, so why can’t it be you? Why are you going to
let them go someplace else? And, they may not get the message, the perspective
that you can bring to them. It may help them change their lives in some
form.
For me, I see it with my tweets every day. People’s worlds are changing with
one tweet at a time. Every day I hear messages on how a little tweet made an
impact in that person’s day. Every day I get a message that it came at the right
time, thanks for the reminder, great thing, I want to be able to share this.
So, there are a lot of ways to share your voice. We do not know who is going
to hear it, or how it will impact their lives. We need to be able to share it
for the sake of sharing it, knowing it will make a difference. We may not know
where it will make a difference, but it will!
There is a stream of consciousness that flows, and the Universe will use
every medium possible to be able to deliver the message, and where it needs to
be able to be. Serve the World and touch people’s lives!
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