May the Force Be With You:
Developing Your Seventh Sense
In grade school we’re taught that we have five
senses–sight, hearing, touch, smell and taste–that help us navigate and
interpret the world around us. Each of these senses uses an organ or body part
(eyes, ears, skin, nose, tongue) to interface with and analyze the environment.
We also have what is often referred to as a sixth sense–intuition.
Intuition is an inner sense and it
emerges from subtle, barely perceptible body sensations. Intuition involves a feeling of having received information
without having used any apparent method to access it. Sometimes we just know something, without having to
analyze it, remember it or even think about it. Intuition is information that
simply “pops” into awareness without any apparent prompting. It brings new and
novel ideas, it warns us of danger and it guides us toward our highest good–if
we learn to recognize and capture the fleeting ideas and subtle sensations that
are the hallmark of intuitive sensing.
Perhaps you have had an instance,
where, in hindsight, you realized that, had you previously been nudged by an
intuitive awareness, but it was so faint and fleeting that you passed it off as
just another any random thought. Wouldn’t it be great to have a warning that an
intuition is coming, an intuitive cue,
that alerts us to the fact that an intuition is about to emerge? Well, there is
such an early-warning system that can help us capture those elusive and
unpredictable intuitive insights. It is sometimes called the felt sense.
I call it pre-intuition…the seventh
sense. On occasion, I also call it
“the niggling,” because that is what it feels like to me–a gentle but definite
sense of something stirring within the pit of my stomach, producing sensations
of slight unease and a mental feeling of snapping to attention. It is a a brief
and subtle, but clearly recognizable alert signal, a message to myself to “pay
attention.”
Psychologist Eugene Gendlin, who
popularized the term, felt sense,
describes it as a sensation within the body that forms at the border zone
between conscious and unconscious awareness. Although unclear and unfocused at
first, as we pay more attention to it, this pre-intuitive sensation gradually
becomes more conscious and its meaning more clear. These sensations offer us a
whole, fully-formed and complex message, even though it may surface into
consciousness as only a single word, phrase or image. As we become more aware
of the bodily sensations that make up
our own unique felt sense or pre-intuitive message system, we can learn to more
easily recognize it. Each time we do, each time we react to it and use it, it becomes strengthened through
the conscious-subconscious feedback loop. Over time, it becomes a clear, strong
easily recognizable cue, an efficient and effective early-warning system.
Common pre-intuition signals include
pit-of-the-stomach sensations, like my stirring, “niggling” sensation, or a
sense of one’s stomach “dropping.” Sensations in other parts of the body
include a “catch” in the breath, a sense of your skin “crawling” or a sudden feeling
of cold or dread. As you begin to notice your pre-intuition sensations and use
them, they often become accompanied by a mental sensation as well. You may have
a subtle but noticeable sense of heightened awareness, much like the mind state
that accompanies a one-focused meditation, where you are both relaxed and alert
at the same time, and highly focused on the present moment, as you await the
experience that will follow. Over time, you become more attuned to these
sensations and are able to notice them more readily and clearly. When this
happens, the process becomes automatic and you then have a reliable and
extremely valuable pre-alert system always in place, available to alert you to
any intuitions or creative insights that may surface. You will never again have
to look back in hindsight and regret a missed opportunity to respond to an
intuitive message.
Rita Milios, The Mind Mentor, is a psychotherapist, author and spiritual coach from Kissimmee, FL. To learn more about her work or to schedule a coaching session, call Rita at 863-496-7223 or email ritamilios@gmail.com.