Speaking before the Ivanov School of Leadership Alumni Association - Skopje, Macedonia
"When
people ask where I studied to be an ambassador, I say my neighborhood
and my school. The younger you start, the better. "
-- former U.S.
Ambassador Andrew Young
Ambassadors come from everywhere -- every background, every nation and every age.
We don't realize, however, that each of us can serve as an ambassador.
I
smile at an old photo of me at age 5, the weekend before starting
kindergarten. Back then, I couldn't wait to march off to school to make
new friends.
At the time, my greatest joys were playing with kids
in our cul-de-sac and dreaming about flying on airplanes. There was a
deep yearning in me to meet others I imagined as distant relatives. I
wondered about the different clothes they'd wear, the languages they'd
speak and the physical attributes they had which would be unlike my own.
I didn't realize it then, but I was an ambassador in the making!
Goodwill Ambassadorship
Merriam-Webster
defines an ambassador as an official diplomatic envoy. But the same
dictionary ascribes a second, highly powerful meaning to the word
ambassador.
Ambassadors are messengers; unofficial representatives of goodwill.
That
secondary reference is especially important. The definition invites us
all to become unofficial goodwill ambassadors -- in our communities,
schools, workplace and even as we travel.
My Recent Trip as a Goodwill Ambassador
With reporters in Kosovo
My
husband and I just returned from our latest trip, this time around
southeastern Europe. Originally invited to speak in Serbia at the Summit
of 100 Young Leaders of Southeastern Europe, I quickly booked other
venues.
In three weeks, we traveled through six countries --
Bulgaria, Greece, Macedonia, Kosovo, Serbia and Hungary -- and I was
thrilled to speak eight times in five of those countries.
Serving
as an ambassador of my own making, I addressed values I'm passionate
about and topics near and dear to my heart: personal influence,
sustainable leadership and entrepreneurship. I also talked about my
foundational message: how to find happiness and fulfillment in life.
Talks
brought me to the American Farm School in Thessaloniki, Greece;
Cornivus (formerly Karl Marx) University in Budapest, Hungary; the
Ivanov School of Leadership Alumni in Skopje, Macedonia; and the
University of Applied Sciences in Ferizaje, Kosovo. Two of my venues
were American Corners, outposts of U.S. Embassies that promote American
culture, language and education.
In my unofficial capacity, I
served as goodwill ambassador to some whose direct exposure to Americans
has been limited to nonexistent. The same held true in reverse: I met
both young and older adults who provided me with insight into
themselves, their history and their respective cultures.
I arrived
in the region to inspire a new generation of innovators, collaborators
and leaders. But I returned having absorbed my own lessons, too,
picking up nuances from others that I couldn't acquire back home.
Many
of these exchanges bridged gaps. As individuals meeting with one other,
we weren't dealing with foreign nations. Instead, we were discovering
commonalities in thoughts, aspirations and hope for a better world.
There's a Goodwill Ambassador in All of Us
At American Farm School in Thessaloniki, Greece
This latest tour through southeastern Europe was fun, exciting and sometimes challenging.
Getting
around the region, we took several lengthy bus rides and boarded a few
cramped mini vans. On our final night, we slept at the Budapest Airport
to avoid missing 6 am flights back to the U.S.
But we were also
buoyed by foreign friendships, warm hospitality, great food and lots of
laughs. In typical fashion, my husband Jim Sweeney even managed another
international masters basketball tournament to play in, one that
perfectly coincided with my 3-day summit in Belgrade.
The
highlight of my latest trip was getting together with fellow
ambassadors. They enabled me forge new friendships, some that are sure
to grow over time. Whether they realized it or not, these goodwill
ambassadors helped make the world a smaller, kinder and richer place for
me.
Though unnamed, I met an IP lawyer helping university
students become powerful public speakers; a young woman from Bosnia who
connected with me through LinkedIn and took a day off from work to meet
me; and two friends who are establishing an innovative new university
together.
I also met an older gentleman who painted peace flowers
while I spoke at an American Corner and presented his artwork to me as a
gift. Finally, I met a 19-year-old who overcame dyslexia and a severe
lack of confidence. That same young man is helping fellow students by
establishing debating clubs throughout his country.
Time For Your Ambassadorship to Arise
You've
heard of several people who made a positive impression on me. They are
currently serving as goodwill ambassadors in their own right.
But now it's time for you. Be inspired and empowered to unleash the goodwill ambassador that lives inside of you.
Listen in to one my latest podcasts entitled You as Ambassador.
We're all poised to become goodwill ambassadors and I hope you consider becoming one yourself!
Maura is an International Speaker on Influence, Leadership and Emotional Intelligence
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