My life has been an eclectic journey all
leading and guiding me to where I am now. My family patterns started out
with parents that did not have emotional constructs on how to be able to love
me the way I needed to be loved. That propelled me on a lifelong path, one that
awakened me to my own truths that I did not feel loved nor did I receive the
recognition I wanted and deserved. I learned that they were not capable of what
I needed, and were not wired to provide what was vital in a healthy
relationship. My early childhood experiences were a vehicle to studying
relationships. I observed how other people reacted to each other, how they
treated each other, and how they felt respect.
Travelling through two previous marriages, and
a number of occupations opened my eyes to different parts of life. The journey
propelled me to get my marketing degree fifteen years after high school, which
started my journey on personal development. I have studied personal development
for one hour a day since 1989. Subsequently that motivated and boosted me into
business development. That led me into fifteen years of unsuccessful MLM work because
I didn’t fit into a box. I did realize that there was a system; however, it was
rigid and I didn’t fit.
Throughout the process of self-discovery, I
continued to look for ways to uncover and discover who Gary was. At that time,
I shifted my priorities and went to massage school after 9/11. I realized there
was more inside of me that I needed to share. I saw myself as a healer and
teacher. During that period I worked through my ‘stuff’, which brought
me to a place of love and enabled me to make a huge impact. I began to do
massage for people with disabilities, one of the most fulfilling things I have
done in my lifetime. Unfortunately after about four years the funding for that
program was eliminated, eliminating about 95% of my income and emotional support
that I received from working with my clients and their families. That
experience thru me into a funk.
I fell into motivational and inspirational
quotes, and I began to share them on Twitter. I started sharing motivational
quotes with others, and to selfishly lift myself up. People started
responding and RT-ing, asking questions, making comments.
There was a Universal message, “Okay, Gary
you got your coaching certificate ten years ago. This is your vehicle to
coach.” I saw that experience as a positive opportunity because every
single day people are remarking about the tweets. They would tell me how the
message lifted them, and how it had an affirming, optimistic effect on their
life. Now approaching six years on Twitter, there has been tremendous growth,
touching lives every day, in some way, in a very positive way.
How can I help you sort through your
experiences, to find how to shift those things that happened, and not dwell in
the ‘poo’ and start looking for the ‘pony’ in all of it . . .
and, create happy rides.
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