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Losing Someone You Love . . . Searching For Bobby

By Caryl Loper

Change and acceptance are inevitably the most challenging state of affairs. There may be varying degrees of difficulty depending on the situation. Losing someone you love is a heartrending experience.  Has there been a time in your life when you were challenged to accept such a fate?

Such a fate will affect matters of the heart at the deepest level. Without any doubt, they are complex and arduous. It is never about disregarding the experience, sweeping it under the rug, but rather one of acceptance. It is about learning bravely, sifting through our perceptions of negative thoughts and extracting some measure of truth that teaches us something of value.  What did you learn? If you could, would you make a different choice? How has it changed who you are? How can you help someone else through their experience?

Losing someone through death, divorce or abandonment is agonizing and heartbreaking. It would be unusual to say that anyone was immune from such an outcome.  Although devastating, they broaden who we are.  What emotions have you felt from your experience? What differences do you see and feel about life? How can you help another human being?

Here is one journey that I relate, express and share with you. It is not my personal experience; yet,

it is everyone’s, simply because at one point or another we have all embraced loss, misfortune and adversity.

In 1969, when my husband Gary was only 13 years old he lost someone so dear to him –

his baby brother.

Can you imagine? I cannot.

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