Can’t find quality singles to date? Who should pay on a first date? Should a first date end with a first kiss or a sleepover? The questions go on and on.  Are you caught up in the dating confusion? Tired of dating, breaking up, healing, dating, breaking up, healing...and doing it over and over again and again?

In over thirty-five years of working with singles, not much has gotten better. In fact, the dating process is continually getting worse. American’s tried something over the past forty plus years and now we are suffering the repercussions, we and our children.

America has the highest divorce rate ever in its history, even among church-going couples. Many singles have been married three to five times. There are far too many abortions and unwanted pregnancies. Sexually-transmitted diseases are at epidemic proportions. Broken homes and single parents abound. Teen prostitution is flooding the high schools and tweens are having oral sex parties in middle school. A tad bit over-whelming I’d say.

Over the years dating has moved away from many sound, healthy, stable relationship principles and values. It was not intentional; American’s simply wanted to explore new possibilities. However, more than fifty years later we are realizing our mistakes. We are no longer achieving the loving, committed, long-term relationships we are looking for.

Today’s traditional dating has become unstable, confusing and extremely frustrating. This is not changing or getting better. Many singles are frustrated and giving up on dating. Others are settling for someone who is not good for them instead of finding someone who is.

In the areas of male/female relationships I have found that the majority of the population has developed a dysfunctional dating mentality. In other words, their thinking is incorrect. Incorrect thoughts create incorrect actions, which in turn, produce undesirable results.

Singles are frustrated, facing heartache and heartbreak over and over, before or after marriage. Many who decide to live together still end up breaking up or not committing. In the last fifty years this society has made major relationship building changes. Women are more aggressive in all areas of their relationships. Men are responding by doing less and letting the woman do more. Some changes are good but many have done extreme harm.

What’s your opinion?

Christina Courting (Nelson)
Author & Speaker
Courtship & Happiness Coach
Law of Attraction Matchmaker

Phone: 727-415-0464
ChristinaCourting@gmail.com
www.ChristinaCourting.LinktoExpert.com